Hey Everyone, Crymson here.

I have noticed throughout the new year, that the term "Gay" is being thrown around as an insult way too often. This needs to stop. I see way too many bans for something that shouldn't happen in the first place. A lot of young members on this site are still finding themselves. Still learning about their sexuality and about who they want to become.

I found this quote on a website, put in place to argue the very point I am making here.

"It doesn't matter what the context or intention of the person using the word. The fact is when the word was initially being used in a derogatory manner it stemmed from homophobic position. If you're a gay teenager growing up scared of the stigma you will face, hearing that word used frequently in a negative context can only add to your feeling of isolation. What's the harm in looking out for other people's feelings (no matter how trivial they might seem to you) and choosing a different word?"

It doesn't matter if you are straight, gay, bisexual, bi curious... whatever.. Gay is never to be used in a negative manner. There are millions of people in this world fighting for equal rights for us. Yes, I said US. I am a bisexual female and damn proud of it. Be proud of who you are, kids. If you know you're gay.. stand up for it. Don't let anyone use your sexuality against you or tell you that you're confused. People who use the term to put us down only think we are weak. And we can't fight back against it. Stand up. Be proud. Be strong.

And to those of you who say "That's so gay", it must kill you to know that Gays are serving in our military. How does it feel knowing that a gay person, you work so hard to humiliate and degrade is risking their life to protect the very freedom and country you love? The next time you insult something by saying "That's so gay" remember that a gay person is fighting a war you are too damn cowardly to fight yourself. Who is the weaker one now?

CrymsonLiynn - Out.