I feel like sometimes it is ok to let your feelings out and release yourself. But in alot of cases I feel like its weak and shows how weak and sensitive a person can be. But I`m aiming this specifically at relationships. I find it very confusing how women (especially) give men the upper hand and all their power by crying over the fact that they left them or threatened to. I feel like everything happens for a reason and one bad opportunity opens the door for 2 better ones. See what women don`t see is that when a man sees a woman crying over him, he might comfort her but inside it does nothing but feed his ego and lets him know he has complete emotional and mental control over her. When things like that happen he will begin to take advantage of her and the relatioship will be ruined completely. Its time to suck up the tears, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and keep it moving. And one other thing I`ve been hearing about recently is how people commit suicide because of love. We all only have one precous life on this earth that we share with billions of people, don`t give it up for one person. Seriously people find someone NEW.PEACE.
And i never said dont cry at all im just saying that i see alot of very young girls at my school crying over some boy. And alot of my friends cry to me about boys and im just thinking that theyre to young to be hooked on some boy that doesnt put a ring on theyre finger and that probably doesnt care.
LISTEN people this is MY blog i will say on it what i want to say about what ever in my life or around me i have a problem with and you have a problem with it dont comment.
But hey most of the time the man does help the women. You make it all sound negative and like the male sex are evil o_o...Plus on top of that women do end up getting sick of the boy/man there with because of that reason so they'll leave them or get a divorce...Don't get me wrong, love is a gift not something to die over.
that kind of sounds like a stereotypical man but most men arent like that...taking advantage and comforting are two different paths. at least taking advantage would never cross my mind. personally i think that crying for man and women is a sign of strength. crying shows that one is able to show emotion.