I'll help with scripting for you.

i always wanted a web programmer buddy. whats the best way you would make a private message system in a database? its something i haz to start working on next tomorrow. by that, i mean like how to organize the tables. i dont really need any help on any codes. not unless you know how to check collisions for non-square objects in a javascript game, without any third party this and that.

im not sure what i would use a database for if i dont have a website, but i do any i can haz unlimited databases. boot, to be serious, i need something to make sure my databases wont get any mysql injections etc. ive seen a few answers on stackoverflow.com but they just look confusing.

im just using something like this:

http://stackoverflow.com/questions/60174/how-to-prevent-sql-injection-in-php

the first answer. it seems to work, although i tried hacking myself without it and i couldnt figure out how to do it. so it was kinda annoying trying to both prevent hacking, and not being able to do it when i wanted to.

personally i dont like jquery becuz the file is so big.

well i know i can get jquery from another website, i use to use it from google. but i just have a personal issue with using really big stuff i cant just look at and read and i also dont like using stuff i didnt make. my websites are all 100% custom made by me. except one of them haz a paypal donation button, so that was a copy/paste thing.

i probably wouldnt mind using some jquery, but that would only be if i can just have the jquery file, only include the functions i would be using. like if i were to use jquery only for sliding up/down menus (although im sure i can do that even without any script), i would only want those functions and not every single jquery function all together in the same file.

i dont need it. i mean i really know alot about how things work i can probably make my own jquery. it would probably be really slow, but it would get the job done. when im finished with making profiles on this one website im probably going to make my own sliding menu effect. but without any script. it shouldnt be too hard, i made my own toggle thing using this:

<div style='background:#ccc'a='0'onclick='this.style.height=(this.a=(this.a)?0:1)?"100px":"20px"'>toggle</div>

its useful to me, but i dont think css can toggle sizes with clicking (no, :hover and :active doesnt count). which btw, with how this code works i can toggle between size, margins, well anything really.

But, we'll never learn that way..