Some people people might call me socially impared, some people would call my a sissy, but the problem i have is common in every teenage boy. You see, there is this girl that I like. She isnt like the other girls. Shes not a prep by any means but i havent been able to speak to her even though ive had perfect chances. The reason is that she is REALLY shy. I never wanna open my mouth because i feel like i might say something stupid. i just get all choked up. Idk what it is but she just makes me really nervous. Also a new problem arose...other problem is that i never even see her anymore because after the first semester was over, she switched classes and i never saw her again. I have no way of talking to her now. Anyway, I guess the point of this blog is to get a few answers. Girls, what tips can you give boys on asking you out?(lots of tips would be nice because i dont want people to miss oppertunities like i did) Also, if there are any boys reading what are some of you tips? Anyway thanks for reading my blog and if you have stories like mine, please share...i kinda dont wanna feel alone :/
IS BE SWEET(gurls always fall for tht)
BE SENSITIVE (but manly too)
DONT BE CONSEDED(gurls hate tht)
STRT OUT TO BE FRENDZZ THEN STRT OUT TO GETTIN CLOSE LIKE HUG HER LIKE A FREND
THEN U MITE WANNA GO UP TO THE NXT STEP LOOK IN HER EYES AND IF SHE LOOK LIKE SHE HAPPY AND SMILING THEN SHE LIKE U AND THT WEN U ASK HER IF SHE SAY YES KISS HER ON THE CHEEK IF SHE SAY NO STAY POSITVE THERES ALWAYS MORE FISH IN THE SEA
conman, i have the same problem as u, then she got seriously hurt, and now i relized that every one i love get hurt,so i just dont love any one now, not even my own family, and ill die alone,and ill die happy knowing that no one will get hurt becuz of me, ever again.
Oddly enough, my girlfriend actually does like power tools... I just don't trust her with them. One time she hit herself in the head with a hammer while trying to put up a tent...
Ok, Here are some tips (this is how i got my almost possible maybe future gf XD)
First, Become friends. Introduce yourself and create small talk. In the hall go like "Hey! How are you?". This can go a long way.
Also, try to use small once in a while jokes.
Ex. G-" Hi ___, How are you?" B- "ohh im sorry i dont speak english"
Witty little jokes to make her feel welcome.
Also, dont go on to strong. Be a bit shy too. Girls love shy and sensitive.
Be your self and powertools no girl i know want to touch powertool also i have same problem with as you but i think she like me cuz she be looking at me.
Haha, my brother is inloved. He follows her everywhere. And never talks to her. Hes kind of a stalker. And hes not smart enough to help her with anything. Hes pretty much an amateur.
Okay I'm a guy but here's my tips...(I had same problems)... First Switched some classes to be with her... Second try to find what she likes... Third small talk with her about things you have in common... after maybe 3 three weeks of a lttle bit of knowing each other, ask her to a movie... Fourth if there is a school dance coming up ask her to it(but be shy when asking her, makes 'her' feel comfortable and somewhat in control (girls like that))... then after 7 weeks , ask her to be your girlfriend...but remember when asking her to be your girlfriend tell her that 'we'll take things slow'... I don't wanna continue because of my tips gets R-rated... that's my 13 week plan in getting a girl... Worked 4 times before... so hope it helps...